You know what? It's not about me. That thought alone is probably one of the single most important ideas in serving on a music team. That thought alone has the power to end the politics, end arguments about style and song selection, and put to one side any other divisions that form in a group of people volunteering to work together.
When it's not about me, it's all about following the direction of my leader. By putting myself under their leadership, I am trusting that God has placed them in that position, and that their leadership is inspired by Him. As a servant, I am there to serve them as best I can. No task is too small, and no request too large. No criticism of my playing is to be taken personally, and is not a reflection of their dislike of me personally. I have laid down my life to serve Him, and it's just not about me anymore
When it's not about me, it's all about what's best for God's people. Is my super-cool 5/8 riff with tritone substitutions and an accent on 2-e-and-a going to inspire people to worship? If not, then maybe it's just about me. Is the hottest song on the CCLI charts just what our church needs to sing right now? If not, then maybe it's just about me. Is grooming my body more important than grooming my spirit before leading people in worship? If so, then maybe it's just about me. I have laid down my life to serve Him, and it's just not about me anymore.
When it's not about me, it's all about how I can best serve the rest of the music team. Which of the five love languages can I exercise in this rehearsal to build up another person? Can I speak words of encouragement to another singer? Can I help the drummer set up his kit? Can I sit and chat to someone I don't know about their week for a few minutes before we start? Can I bring some food for everyone to share? Can I give up my solo for someone else who rarely gets an opportunity? I have laid down my life to serve Him, and it's just not about me anymore.
When it's not about me, it's all about God. Are my attitudes in line with Him? Am I putting His purposes before my own? Am I coming simply to serve, or do I have my own agendas? Am I seeking His will for this gathering of His people? Am I following him consistently throughout the week? Am I playing to glorify Him, or am I playing to glorify me?
I have laid down my life to serve Him, and it's just not about me anymore.